Raising children is not always easy, and parents should be an effective method for dealing with discipline to use a child.
Good discipline must respect and empathy for your child's education.
Children raised with love and discipline given will act happier, more familiar and usually better.
Here are tips on good technique and effective implementation of discipline in children:
First. Ask a relationship of mutual respect between you and your child.
Respect your child to develop a relationship of mutual love and trust.
Two. There is a sense of empathy.
Respect your child's feelings and teach them to respect other people's feelings as well. Encourage your children to the question, what was the feeling that the child does something to talk.
Three. Know your child's age and stage of development.
Understanding the developmental stages of children and why children behave the way they do, is very important.
For example, you can not expect from 2 years to help kids understand the logic and wisdom. In order to understand the skills and discipline appropriate stages of the development of a child.
Four. Encourage your children to talk heart to heart.
Over time there is not time to get out. When children misbehave, they really want to say something. Instead, make your child will try to come closer and gently asks what they feel.
In this way, you can eliminate the unruly behavior of children. You will learn why children perform these behaviors and what can be done to overcome them.
Five. Consistent.
Children need consistency, what parents tell them. berusalah monitoring and unified message or advice that you transfer the child.
Six. Anticipate and avoid.
Discover what can be a picky child. For example, if you know a child is a picky time, try to avoid going at the same time.
Give the children a meal before going to the supermarket or buy snacks market in order to avoid whining.
Seven. Type the election, but still they give limits.
Makes the choice, so that the children feel as until eventually the child will be more cooperative.
Limit the choice of what you define as usual, for example, they offer a choice of two meals for breakfast, you are ready to put their options.
Eight. Highlight the consequences of what they are getting when you do.
There are consequences that they should receive for their actions, for example: "If you take the toy from your sister, then you are not permitted to play in the game room."
But not the safety and health of children. So of course you are not going to let the children hurting themselves or others.
Nine. Emphasize that you do not like the behavior of the child, not itself.
Children are very sensitive and probably feel that you do not like them, so their behavior underscores kids you do not like.
10th. Praise for the child.
Praise or hug when children something good, not just to visit if you're doing something wrong.
This will make it more balanced education and discipline children.
