Did he insist that the rules are too strict?
If so, then it is time to negotiate new rules, the kids want to work.
Here are tips on how to negotiate with your child rules:
First. Consider your teen perspective.
Listen to your child about the rules that will guide them.
If they do not agree, tell them you are willing to listen to what they say and to respond seriously.
If you are willing to listen to their concerns and see what they can offer, they'd be easier to negotiate. The negotiations in the front crawl better than it behind you.
Two. Speak clearly.
Let the child know what laws, the negotiations and the rules are. For example, rules including curfews, allowance or homework can be negotiated.
While the rules are not negotiable For example, driving without a seat belt, school attendance and drinking.
Three. Explain the reasons for each rule.
Explaining the reasons behind the rules you create will increase the understanding of children and encourage children to want to work together.
Four. Encourage your child to express their point of view to express.
Teens can reveal plausible arguments why they think that a change in the rules is that young people develop good judgment. Encourage your children to express their point of view to express.
Five. Talk about the consequences.
Young people tend to believe that nothing will happen to them. Speaking about the possible consequences of it will be youth program from the ground up to help and be a little more careful.
Avoid threats. Provision of information and facts, not threats. Way that young people can change their behavior and direction before thinking something happened.
Six. Make it past behavior in return.
In the negotiations with your child, consider the behavior in the past.
If they are responsible, and to make good decisions, they will probably be able to effectively change rules. Enter an estimate of the good deeds they did.
Seven. Make more room for your child.
Give room to maneuver show your teen how they ruling to maturity.
Does not enforce the rules that are outdated. More room to grow and develop you give your teenager sleep.
Eight. Respect the opinions of your teen.
You also need to respect the views of the child. Teens will be cooperative if given a voice, an opinion on issues of interest to be exhibited.
